5 Signs Your Personality Is So Strong It’s Intimidating Others (Never Tolerate #2)

“The lion doesn’t turn around when the small dog barks.” – African Proverb.
Have you been often accused of being intimidating? People might judge you for what you are without knowing about you or your life. Your personality today is a result of the experiences you have gone through in the past. Because of that your attitude towards life has become strong and tough. Others may not like the way you are but that should not bother you. You should not be sorry for who you are.
Marked by tension, your life has seen many ups and downs in your career and relationships. This has transformed you into an independent and stronger person. Therefore you do not easily come off as soft to people anymore.
Sometimes you are misunderstood as rude and mean for the way you behave and react to others. What most people fail to see is your soft side behind this garb of the tough one. People who come across as intimidating are actually kind in nature and have a big heart.
Some common traits that are visible in intimidating personalities are the following:
1. Small talk is annoying – You do not appreciate small talks and neither do you indulge in them quite often. Deep and serious conversations which involve participation of the intellect is something that interests you. Petty conversations concerning the weather or the glamour world do not catch your attention. You are in fact infuriated if someone interrupts you with their small talks.
2. Willful ignorance is not tolerated – You not only have a strong personality but are wise and learned at the same time. You are open-minded and do not entertain someone who is judgmental. Baseless judgement come from being ignorant. One way to mitigate ignorance is to educate yourself. But if someone is too reluctant to do so for themselves, then you would either walk away or lose your patience with them.
3. You see more opportunities than others – Because you are open minded, you may see many more opportunities in situations than others. This attitude not only helps you survive but it also pushes you through tough situations. At the same time you may encounter animosity and jealousy from others because you have the ability to achieve success through hardships.
4. Your focus is on solutions and not problems – Strong-willed people are focused and they know how to get their things done. They do not tolerate any excuses from others who try to hinder their work. They dislike people who are weak and complaining and fail to manage things on their own.
5. You are a person of your word – Honesty is something that you value the most. You are straightforward who speaks their mind and is not afraid to come off as someone who is rude. You are not two-faced and tell people exactly what you think. You always stick by your word and never lie to a friend. Because of your personality traits you are choosy about your friends. You cannot be friends with anybody and everybody. You detest liars and dishonest people.
If it sounds like you or someone you know, then you must understand by now that people with strong personalities may come off as intimidating but that they are not cruel at heart. They do not try to dominate you in any way. They just cannot restrain their anger and frustration when they come across people who wear masks.

Harvard Research Team Reveals The SHOCKING ‘Superhuman’ Abilities Of The Tibetan Monks!

It’s fascinating to consider just how many ancient teachings tell us that humans have the capacity to gain extraordinary powers through various techniques. Some of these techniques, known as siddhis in the yoga tradition (from the Sanskrit, meaning “perfection”), include meditation, static dancing, drumming, praying, fasting, psychedelics, and more.
In Buddhism, for example, the existence of advanced powers is readily acknowledged; in fact, Buddha expected his disciples to be able to attain these abilities, but also to not become distracted by them.
A Professor of Buddhist and Tibetan Studies at the University of Michigan, Donald Lopez Jr., describes the many abilities ascribed to Buddha:
“With this enlightenment, he was believed to possess all manner of supernormal powers, including full knowledge of each of his own past lives and those of other beings, the ability to know others’ thoughts, the ability to create doubles of himself, the ability to rise into the air and simultaneously shoot fire and water from his body. . . . Although he passed into nirvana at the age of eighty-one, he could have lived “for an aeon or until the end of the aeon” if only he had been asked to do so.”
Again, there are numerous historical anecdotes of people with, as the Institute of Noetic Sciences calls them, ‘extended human capacities.” Since this article is focused on Buddhist monks, here is another example from the lore as written by Swami Rama in Living with the Himalayan Masters:
I had never before seen a man who could sit still without blinking his eyelids for eight to ten hours, but this adept was very unusual. He levitated two and a half feet during his meditations. We measured this with a string, which was later measured by a foot rule. I would like to make it clear, though, as I have already told you, that I don’t consider levitation to be a spiritual practice. It is an advanced practice of pranayama with an application of bandeaus (locks). One who knows about the relationship between mass and weight understands that it is possible to levitate, but only after long practice. . .
He (also) had the power to transform matter into different forms, like changing a rock into a sugar cube. One after another the next morning he did many such things. He told me to touch the sand – and the grains of sand turned into almonds and cashews. I had heard of this science before and knew its basic principles, but I had hardly believed such stories. I did not explore this field, but I am fully acquainted with the governing laws of science.
A lot of these stories exist within the literature and lore, but they are just stories, up to the readers to decide if they hold any actually credibility. Of course, one who subscribes to various ancient teachings would be more inclined to believe that these are more than just stories and tales. With science shedding light on the possible truths of ancient mysticism, it’s not implausible to think that, at one time, these abilities were more common knowledge.
Today, there have been a number of studies within the realms of parapsychology that have yielded statistically significant results, especially when examining the findings that’ve come from quantum physics. This is why Max Planck, the theoretical physicist who originated quantum theory, stated that he “regards consciousness as fundamental” and that he regarded “matter as derivative from consciousness.” He also wrote that “we cannot get behind consciousness” and that “everything that we talk about, everything that we regard as existing postulates consciousness.” And the Dalai Lama has supported this viewpoint:
Broadly speaking, although there are some differences, I think Buddhist philosophy and Quantum Mechanics can shake hands on their view of the world. We can see in these great examples the fruits of human thinking. Regardless of the admiration, we feel for these great thinkers, we should not lose sight of the fact that they were human beings just as we are.
R.C. Henry, Professor of Physics of Physics and Astronomy at John Hopkins University, explains things further:
A fundamental conclusion of the new physics also acknowledges that the observer creates the reality. As observers, we are personally involved with the creation of our own reality. Physicists are being forced to admit that the universe is a “mental” construction. Pioneering physicist Sir James Jeans wrote: “The stream of knowledge is heading toward a non-mechanical reality; the universe begins to look more like a great thought than like a great machine. Mind no longer appears to be an accidental intruder into the realm of matter, we ought rather hail it as the creator and governor of the realm of matter. Get over it, and accept the inarguable conclusion. The universe is immaterial-mental and spiritual.
For a selected list of downloadable peer-reviewed journal articles reporting studies of psychic phenomena, mostly published in the 21st century, you can click here.
During a visit to remote monasteries in the 1980s, Harvard Professor of Medicine Herbert Benson and his team of researchers studied monks living in the Himalayan Mountains who could, by g Tum-mo (a yoga technique), raise the temperatures of their fingers and toes by as much as 17 degrees. It is still unknown how the monks are able to generate such heat.
And it doesn’t stop there — the researchers also studied advanced meditators in Sikkim, India, where they were astonished to find that these monks could lower their metabolism by 64 percent.
In 1985, the Harvard research team made a video of monks drying cold, wet sheets with body heat alone. Monks spending winter nights 15,000 feet high in the Himalayas is also not uncommon.
These are truly remarkable feats and not the first time science has examined humans who can do extraordinary things.
If you’re further interested in this subject, I recommend reading Supernormal: Science, Yoga, and the Evidence for Extraordinary Psychic Abilities by Dr. Dean Radin, Chief Scientist at the Institute of Noetic Sciences.

How Your Body Tells You When You’ve Met Your True Love

The mystic ways of the universe are always intriguing and interesting for us, people. The creation of a perfect bond between two souls is a cosmic event and love is the greatest gift given to us, humans, to spread it and nurture it. Love creates the greatest things, love continues humanity and love make miracles happen.

However, they often say that you will just KNOW if you met the true love of your life. That is actually true, there are a couple of interesting signs that describe the physical manifestation of true, passionate love.
Of course, this is your strongest weapon- your intuition will tell you many things, involving many aspects of your life. Our subconsciousness works 24/7 and the subliminal messages that our inner-self provide could be crucial. When you meet the love of your life, your intuition will certainly give you a sign.
You suddenly feel up for anything! You become more reliable on yourself and you are not afraid to take risks or the first step ahead. The love inspires you to be the best version of yourself and to give them a true reason to become the best version of themselves too.
If you feel any pain, and this pain becomes relieved by the thought of your lover and your relationship with them, then it’s a clear sign that your partner affects you in the right way. This relief often comes from the euphoria you sense while you’re thinking about your love, which is just like a natural painkiller.
We can all agree that all relationships need work. On the other hand, when you meet your right person, everything just falls into place, and you don’t feel like you are trying too hard to save the relationship. That makes you feel calm and peaceful.
You understand that sex is one of the essential of the relationships. You become aware of this because you have a STRONG physical need for your partner and both your body and soul approve it.
You feel the warmth of love when you are together with your partner. You feel strong affection and vulnerability- this is not a bad sign, but a clear sign that you feel comfortable and relaxed in their presence.
Your view of the world simultaneously changes. You become more optimistic and always look at the bright side of life.
You start making radical changes in your life- you start thinking more about your health and how to improve it. It’s really amazing how people quit smoking, drinking, drugs etc; after they meet the love of their life. Being in true, passionate love, like we already said, is a constant improvement to be the best version of yourself.
You will feel a strong empathy like never before. The invisible bond forged between the two souls becomes stronger when you’re suffering or experience joy. You will start to share these moments emotionally and you will be amazed by how strong your emotional connection is with its strong effects on both of you.
If your partner makes you feel excited and you’re looking forward to meeting them, then you can experience some symptoms on your body which are similar to anxiety; such as, for example, your heart beating faster, your hands sweating, or your cheeks flushing.

10 Signs You’ve Come In Contact With A Negative Energy Or Psychic Attack

I was sitting shotgun in the car, with family and friends, while we were trying to find a place to park for dinner.
We pulled into the restaurant’s parking lot, naturally, to find a place to park.
A lot attendant came over to the driver’s side window and prompted to scold and chastise the driver for being there and breaking some parking lot-line of cars rule system that we didn’t know was in place.
The driver was hit smack in the face with the parking lot attendant’s tense and hostile attitude, and instantly, the driver then also became irritable, tense, and short.
This is an example of an energetic attack.
Typically, an attack of energy, also called a psychic attack, comes on quick and arises from someone else’s low energy emotions, thoughts, or attitudes – directed at you.
Low energy is also called negative energy. It’s any energy that’s generated by a less than wonderful thought or feeling, like anger, hostility, worry, irritability, sadness, or any other emotion, thought, or feeling that falls into this category.
If you’re sensitive to energy, aka, if you’re an empath or clairsentient, this makes you especially sensitive to onslaughts of low or negative energy attacks.
Negative or low energy attacks have the potential to *completely* change your mood or your physical feeling of wellness in an instant.
Think this has happened to you? These are the most common signs.

10 Most Common Signs and Symptoms of Negative Energy Attack

  1. Sudden stomach ache or nausea
  2. Stabbing pains around the chest, shoulders, and back
  3. A throbbing headache
  4. Feeling disoriented or out of it all of a sudden
  5. Crankiness or irritability
  6. Feeling angry or on edge for seemingly no reason
  7. Feeling like you’re beneath a heavy cloud or like there’s a weight on you
  8. Feelings of worry, guilt, or anxiety interrupting your day
  9. Coughing or choking
  10. Tightness in the chest or feeling like you can’t breathe
If these happen to you frequently and on a “all of a sudden” type basis, consider that the problem is not you, but that you’ve been hit by someone else’s negative energy.
The first step in doing anything about it is noticing that it’s happening. Next time you feel a sudden change in how you feel, emotional or physical, take a moment to ask yourself if there may have been a trigger.
Think carefully, it might not always be immediately apparent. Energy attacks can happen from a distance and through the internet, too!

A Galactic Tidal Wave of Divine Light is Raising the Frequency of Earth, Ending the Old Reality

Over time, our world will undergo a number of different changes and energetic shifts, some are so slight that we don’t even realize that they have occurred while others are significantly larger and more noticeable. One such major shift is currently underway providing us with an important shift towards the ending of our old reality and the ascension to that which is next to come.
In order for the world to continue in its path of ascension, it must first experience a re-calibration of its electromagnetic fields. Experts in this area have witnessed significant changes, reporting that the magnetic fields, as we know them, are in fact dissolving and reforming in a higher frequency.
As the electromagnetic fields on the Earth shift, so to do our auras as the two are deeply connected. This journey to ascension can be difficult to navigate, bringing with it a number of different symptoms including:
  • A need for alone time and for personal space
  • The heightened sense of smell
  • A deep longing to go ‘home’ without knowing where ‘home’ is
  • Increased feelings of static electricity in the body
  • A distorted sense of time, feeling as though it is slowing down or speeding up
  • Sinus and allergy issues
  • Unexplained body aches, pains, tension and soreness
  • Intense, detailed dreams that may be prophetic, or maybe ‘odd’ or bizarre in nature
  • Sudden, unexplained changes in body temperature
  • Changes in both vision and perception
  • Increased psychic awareness, clairvoyance, clairaudience, clairsentience, and intuition
  • Clumsiness and lack of coordination
  • A deep intuition or sense that something is wrong or changing
  • Cold or flu-like symptoms that come and go suddenly
  • Issues involving the stomach or digestive tracts such as IBS or unexplained nausea
  • Changes in diet, appetite and eating habits
  • Sudden development of allergies and intolerances to certain foods
  • Sensitivity to sound
  • Frequent headaches and/or feelings of pressure in the head
  • Changes in sleep patterns or feelings of extreme fatigue
  • Increase in daydreaming and fantasizing
This process of re-calibrating our body is not only a surface shift, but one that reaches right down to our DNA – reforming and redefining every part of our very being. This process may sound alarming, but rest assured that it will bring great benefits.
As we move forward in this process we will be presented with a great deal of new, exciting information, new impulses and sensations, new perceptions and a new understanding of the world around us. This will allow us to address life’s challenges and difficulties with fresh eyes, accepting our new, improved reality.
This new version of Earth will be an incredible place free from fear, greed, violence, deception, and war. As we feel the new, higher frequency radiate throughout the human population we will feel a renewed sense of hope, love, light, joy, and happiness. It will require an open heart and an open mind, but the benefits will far outweigh the cost!

If You Have Any Of These 14 Traits You Are An Advanced Soul

What is an Advanced Soul?
Advanced souls are enlightened individuals who incarnate into this lifetime with a specific purpose and mission – to elevate their area or corner of the world into one of Light and Self-alignment to the Source.
Others prefer to call them Old souls since they have incarnated into this world multiple times compared with others. They are souls that have progressed to a more advanced state of spiritual knowledge, awareness, and balance.

How to spot an Advanced Soul?

Advanced souls possess characteristics that are far different from ordinary human beings. They manifest themselves beyond conventional wisdom.

Advanced Souls have these 14 traits:

1. They have a penetrating gaze.

When advanced souls gaze at you, you feel like they’re looking through your soul. Their gaze is so deep it penetrates deep down your core. Their eyes are steady and do not move much.
They’re fully aware what’s inside and outside of you. Their eyes shine with the light of deep peace, compassion, and wisdom.

2. They have soft and comforting touch.

Their touch is very light on the skin and seems to bring healing to someone who is suffering from any issues in different aspects of life.

3. They have a gentle and soothing voice.

When they speak, they do it with depth and refinement in the voice. They’re not loud. They offer instructions that are wise and free of conflict, though, at times it contradicts with what you think is best for you.
Yet, they know better where your life is heading. When asked, their answers bear a ring of truth and bring clarity that eliminates your confusions. Despite their gentle character, they’re also firm in their convictions and decisions

4. Their aura is very deep and still.

They exude an air of tranquility. Their presence is very comforting and makes you feel at ease and relaxed. They are so tranquil you find yourself feeling so at peace with them as if nothing negative could drive away that peacefulness. Though they’re usually quiet, their presence speaks loudly.

5. They are sincere in all their interactions.

Because advanced souls are deeply conscious and aware beings, they act and speak with sincerity and reassurance. You couldn’t expect them to be untruthful, as their spirit is guided by wisdom and inner-knowing.

6. They will gladly show the way, yet never impose.

They show others the path to enlightenment in a way that is not imposing. They never impose on how right they were and how wrong others could be.

7. They believe in the Oneness and connectedness of all things.

For them, everything comes from only one Source and only one Spirit connects us all.
Their perception of the world goes beyond frontiers, beyond skin colors, beyond borders. Their spirit is magnanimous that they feel connected even with the birds of the air and the fishes of the sea.

8. They are comfortable in their own skin.

Wherever you place an advanced soul, they tend to fit rightly with their environment. They never lose their identity no matter where you place them. They don’t feel a tinge of humiliation or idolatry.

9. They believe only in “what is”.

For them, there’s no positive or negative, only what is. They’re above the pull of opposites for they live in non-duality. They exist in both the All-ness and the Nothing-ness. Their life is a continuous journey in all realms or dimensions.

10. They are not materialistic.

Despite their physical needs, they don’t succumb to luxuries and extravagance. They only strive to live comfortably and simply while doing their business on Earth.
They’re fully aware of their temporary physical existence, thus they thrive in an egoless world of their own. They know that ego is an illusion of a fake self, and because they don’t identify themselves with such ego, their life is not weighed down by it.

11. They look younger.

The vicissitudes of life don’t weigh them. Their body feels lighter, they have fewer wrinkles and clearer skins.

12. They honor “alone” time.

It’s an absolute in the lifestyle of an advanced soul to be able to rest, replenish, recharge, and connect with the Source. A quiet time with themselves keeps them spiritually strong and grounded.

13. They soak themselves in nature and connect with the animals.

Their most favorite retreat is spending time with nature. Nothing beats the freshness and tranquility that nature brings. They consider nature to have a spirit that responds deeply to their spirit.
Animals respond to them eagerly, as if they understand every word an advanced soul says. Even the fiercest of animals seem to lay down its defenses in their presence.

14. Their love is their compass.

They don’t love because it’s the right thing. They love because that is what they are. Love is written in their genes. And this love is the main tool they use to lead others to the right path.
With these characteristics at hand, have you come to realize you are an advanced soul? If yes, please feel free to add some of their unique characteristics too. If you haven’t, do you know the one that fits this description?
source: lifecoachcode

5 Ways To Become A Healer And Not Just A Pain Absorbing Empath

‘As empaths, we are not here to be sponges or enablers. We are here to be helpers, guides, and supporters.’
― Aletheia Luna, Awakened Empath: The Ultimate Guide to Emotional, Psychological and Spiritual Healing.
All human beings absorb and emit energy vibrations, knowingly or unknowingly. Rumi had addressed these centuries back, saying absorbing the energies of this world, one made it a burden; what’s important is one should rise above this world and its burden because another vision exists.
We all have empathic tendencies in us. Some of us know it, some of us, don’t. This justifies the anxiousness, the agony, the confusion and the series of mixed emotions we face while talking to someone or in some gathering.
Some of us have shielded ourselves from these vibrations, including our own while the energetically sensitive empaths have let themselves get affected by this world.


The advantage of being an empath is one can detect the true form of energy within others. One can judge a person without proof. They can not only understand others, they can also heal both themselves and the world.
The dark side of being an empath is falling into a state of chaos. With too many energies around them, they are prone to get confused and often end up becoming victims to negative energies themselves.
But there are ways to deal with the darker side. As an empath, you need to utilize your heal potential so that you don’t hurt yourself in the process of healing the world.



According to Barbara Marciniak, the moment you start etching your vibration on the universe, start emitting your own frequency rather than receiving, you start changing everything. In order to do this, you need confidence.
Believe in yourself. You have the power to change. Use it.


Insecurity is one of the major obstacles which prevent you from becoming a healer. You don’t need to please everyone to like you.
If they don’t like you, if they don’t reciprocate your energy, there’s absolutely no reason to focus on them. You might be alone but you are strong enough to deal with everything. If you depend on others, you lose your confidence.
In our subconscious mind, we have the tendency to be good to everyone irrespective of what kind of people they are, so that they will be good to us and it is their acceptance of goodness which makes us feel good.
Let go of this. All of us are not the same. People with negative energies will never reciprocate to good ones.


Empaths who are insecure tend to get dragged into negative emotions of others. They absorb these emotions to feel the pain. But you need to be a healer.
So, instead of absorbing the pain, understand it and point out the positive sides of it. If something is not going right, that means there are other alternatives.
Find out the positive aspects of everything. It will not only make you feel good but also heal the other person too.


While it is important for you an empath to love yourself, it is also important that you make others love themselves too. That is how you can heal them.
Show them their positive sides, their talents; make them feel good about themselves so that they can radiate positive energy and learn to be optimistic too.


Don’t freak out no matter how stressful the situation is. Even if someone pulls you in a zone of tension, remember that you can heal everything, that things will be okay.
Don’t react or become anxious because this will create negative vibrations for you and create more trouble.
It’s not that difficult to become a healer. All you need to do is focus on yourself and the positivity of this universe. You are an empath. You can heal the world.
source: gostica

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